Description
A private relationship-alignment assessment by Dr. D. Ivan Young
The Relationship Reality Check is a 20-question educational worksheet that helps you notice patterns in communication, conflict and repair, shared direction, personal agency, and readiness for a constructive next step.
What you receive
- The complete 20-question self-assessment
- Five focused reflection areas
- A plain-language scoring and interpretation guide
- A one-next-right-step worksheet
- Immediate digital access after purchase
Private by design: Your answers stay with you. This downloadable worksheet does not collect or transmit relationship responses.
Important: This is a coaching and self-reflection tool, not a clinical test, diagnosis, prediction of relationship success, couples therapy, legal advice, or emergency support. It should never be used to label, shame, confront, control, or secretly assess another person.
If you are experiencing threats, stalking, coercive control, physical violence, or fear for your safety, a joint conversation may not be safe. Contact a qualified local professional or emergency service. In the United States, call 911 for immediate danger, call or text 988 for a mental-health crisis, or contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233) or thehotline.org.
Frequently asked questions
Is it really free?
Yes — free and private, with no email wall to see your result.
Do you store my answers?
No. The assessment does not collect or transmit your responses. They stay with you.
What do I do with the result?
It points you toward one next right step. Depending on where you land, the clarity guides go deeper — I Think He’s Cheating or I Think She’s Cheating for the suspicion stage — or the 30-Day Breakup Recovery Workbook if you already know it’s ending.
Why trust this guide — the credentials behind it
This isn’t advice from someone with an opinion and a podcast. It’s written by Dr. D. Ivan Young, MCC — ranked #1 of Houston’s 3 Best Marriage Counselors by Three Best Rated, with the client record to show for it:
- ICF Master Certified Coach (MCC) — the highest credential the International Coaching Federation grants, held by a small fraction of coaches worldwide
- EMCC Global Master Practitioner
- Master MBTI Practitioner — an authority on personality and how people are actually wired
- NBC-HWC — National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach
- Professional Fellow, Institute of Coaching (a Harvard Medical School affiliate)
★ 4.9 across 73 client reviews · Author of the bestseller Break Up, Don’t Break Down! · TEDx speaker · A global practice based in Houston, TX
What people say about working with him
“Dr. Young is truly gifted. If you walk into his office with an open mind and willingness to put in the work it takes, you can change your whole life.”
“Dr. Young has been a life raft for me the past several years. He’s an all the above kind of therapist; attentive, compassionate, direct, professional…”
“He’s like 3rd on my emergency contact list. Well worth the retainer.”
Verified client reviews via Three Best Rated. These describe coaching with Dr. Young, not this specific guide.
Dr. Young works with a limited number of private coaching clients each year. Learn more about working with him directly.
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